Along with being the parent of a child who is blind, Iām also a teacher of the visually impaired (TVI). While recently spending the day collaborating with another TVI, I was asked a question that I had been asked before. The question was something like, āIs it hard to spend all day working with children who are blind, and then go home and continue the job 24/7 with your own son?ā
The answer was a simple and affirmative, āYes.ā Some days it is pretty hard, especially when progress can be slow for studentsā¦and progress for my son is always slow. I start wondering if Iām doing any good, or if Iām really educating the kids I work with as well as I should be.
I think that all parents raising a child with special needs ask ourselves similar questions. āAm I pushing them hard enough?ā āAm I moving them too fast?ā Most importantly, āAm I doing all that I can to help them reach their maximum potential?ā Parents ask itā¦and so do teachers.
So, as a person in both of those roles, Iām asking myself those questions day in and day out. I’m always wondering how I can be better…or do better. Carrying those concerns with me all the time can be a heavy burden.
However, I was reminded that the burden is entirely worth it when I had one of the best days teaching last week. It wasnāt that my students were blowing their goals out of the water, or that I had phenomenal lesson plans. It was simply because every kid I saw that day was SO excited to see me.
Most of these students werenāt kids that could verbalize their joyā¦but they could show me in their smiles and body language. I entered multiple classrooms and felt like a celebrity every time. Honestly, I don’t know what made me different that day to elicit that kind of reception, but it certainly was above the normā¦and Iām certainly not complaining.
Going back to the original questionā¦again, Iād say that it is hard working and living in this world of blindness and special needsā¦but, I still wouldnāt want to be in any other field. For some reason, I āgetā these kidsā¦and Iām 100% sure that Eddie taught me how to do that. As a teacher, I question my skillsā¦but as a person, I know I have something to give. In all honesty, Iām in this field because, of course, they give so much more to me.